Light
What you bring to a room.
Visionary, Artist, Healer, Sovereign.
THE PROBLEM
Finding one partner is hard. Finding several who fit is harder.
You need women who want this structure, who want each other, and who want you. They also have to agree on time, family, lifestyle and discretion. That search is what your matchmaker does.
WHO IT'S FOR
One man. Two or more women. Matched with care.
Constell8tion is for people who want a committed relationship with one man and two or more women. Some are starting one. Some are adding to one that already exists. Every partner is part of the decision from the start.
THE EIGHT
Eight things we check before any introduction.
Each is assessed through your interview and your answers, then weighed by your matchmaker.
- Emotional maturityHow you handle conflict.
- StructureHow the household operates.
- Ambition & meansWhat you can build.
- AttractionWhether the pull is mutual.
- TimeHow much you can give.
- FamilyChildren, and who raises them.
- ValuesWhat you will not trade.
- DiscretionWho is allowed to know.
THE ASSESSMENT
Twenty-one questions. Your archetype.
Each question asks what you would do in a real situation. Your answers show which archetype you lead with, so your matchmaker understands how you love.
Gravity
What you hold together.
Captain, Provider, Guardian, Architect.
THE PROCESS
How an introduction is made.
Every step is handled by your matchmaker.
01. Apply
Reviewed privately by our team. Always answered.
02. Review and interview
Verified confidentially. Then a discovery call, where you interview us too.
03. Assessment
Twenty-one questions on how you love. Seen by you and our team.
04. The search
Your matchmaker searches everyone eligible, on all eight.
05. Introductions
Your strongest matches, and why we chose them. Details exchanged on a mutual yes.
VERIFICATION
Know who you are meeting.
Before any introduction, every member is:
- Reviewed by our matchmaking team.
- Verified as who they say they are.
- Interviewed personally, men and women alike.
PRIVACY
Seen only by those you choose.
Until you say yes, your profile is seen by your matchmaker alone.
- Under reviewNothing. Only your matchmaker sees your profile.
- IntroductionA profile card: first name, age, city, structure, archetype, photos. No contact details.
- You declineNothing more. The other person is not told why.
- Both say yesPhone numbers, so you can talk outside the app and meet.
WHO YOU'LL MEET
Women who want the same structure you do.
Every woman you are introduced to applied herself, was interviewed, and set her own limits. She wants this structure, as you do. She decides whether to meet you.
MEMBERSHIP
Membership is arranged individually.
Where your matchmaker searches and what it costs are settled with you on the discovery call.
- A search built around you
Where you live, and the structure you want.
- Your matchmaker, in the app
Messaged directly, for as long as you are a member.
- Contact only when you both say yes
No details are shared before both of you agree.
FAQ
Questions
The ones we are asked most. The rest are on the FAQ page.
Is this the dating app?
No. This is matchmaking: your matchmaker selects who you meet. The Constell8tion app opens later, and the same account works for both.
Does a matchmaker choose every introduction?
Yes. Your matchmaker selects every introduction. The assessment informs them. It does not decide.
Can I message the people I'm introduced to?
No. You message your matchmaker. When you both say yes, you exchange numbers and meet in person.
Is there anything for people not looking to be matched?
Yes. Courses and events, free in the Constell8tion app, whether or not you apply for matchmaking.
Does everyone involved know?
Yes, always. Every existing partner is part of the decision before anyone meets.
What if I already have a partner?
That is welcome. Your matchmaker introduces into existing relationships as well as new ones.
What does it cost?
Membership for men is arranged individually and discussed on the discovery call. There is no fee for women.
Do you guarantee an introduction works out?
No. Nobody can promise how two people will feel. What we commit to is the process: every introduction checked against all eight.
How good are you at this?
We do not publish results yet. What we can show you is the process: your matchmaker reads every application, interviews everyone, checks all eight before any introduction, and shares nothing until you both say yes.
Do women get a matchmaker too?
Yes. They work for you, including when the answer is no.
Why eight?
Attraction is only one part of compatibility. The eight are what we check so an introduction is worth your time.
THE WAITLIST
You already know the shape you want.
The first members are being selected now. Join the waitlist, and your matchmaker will contact you. You are never obliged to accept an introduction.
JOIN THE WAITLIST